Monday, May 19, 2008

linggo ng paglinis

diba nasabi ko na noon na lahat ng kasama ko sa apartment eh lahat lalaki? kung di mo alam, now you know. im sure may maitim kang iniisip. haller, wala akong plano. nevah!!!

anyway, one of the unappealing things you get from living with straight men is that it's impossible to have your apartment clean and in order. but i won't let that happen. i've already started cleaning a month ago and last sunday was the time for our kitchen sink and cabinets to be cleaned up. there were a lot plastic bags, rusted empty paint cans, tools, nails and a lot of trash.

all three drawers which were with the wooden cabinet under the sink were already rotting and moist plastics bags stored in it eras ago were making it worse. they were actually decomposing already. good thing there were extra wood so i threw out all the drawers and turned it into a divider. i sawed a plank and nailed it to where the top drawer was. more planks were used as flooring for the formerly second drawer but i left it open. then the lowest drawer was also closed but can still be used since the planks i used on the second drawer were not nailed in place. get the picture?

punyeta, naging carpentero ang prinsesa...

there were not just trash in there, it was more like a thriving habitat for at least two species of roaches, earthworms and a family of mice. i used up a pack of baygon spray refill killing the all the roaches and most of the insect pests. then i kept these for my housemates:(click link below)


these are the pups of mus musculus or house mouse. aren't they just cute when they're not spreading desease? ahehehe pity though since the boys hate them so i had to bury these little pups after they made them quiver and frown with disgust. yes dear. i buried them. alive.

fairygodflower: ay ganun?! with all due respect for the pups, tama lang na nilibing mo sila since you don't have the mamaries of a vermin to feed them...

bitchywitch says: hello sana pinakain mo sa kanila yun. ikaw lang kaya ang nag-revamp, renovate at nag-repair nung bahay...nyahaha.

If you can dream it, you can do it. Always remember that this whole thing was started with a dream and a mouse.
- Walt Disney

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Wednesday, May 7, 2008

one year, isang taon, usa ka tuig!

hwaaaa!!!... nalagpasan ako!!!.... ay char lang...

actually more than one week ago dapat naka-post ang entry na to. kaya lumagpas nga.

it has been a year since i started blogging and sharing stories. exciting.
it has been a year since i started pouring out my sentiments over issues. rewarding.
it has been a year since i started knowing different people everywhere. amazing.
and it has been a year since i opened a new part of my gay life. fulfilling.

ang saya sa mundo ng blog.
sana isa akong prinsesang maganda.
sana kaya kong maging isang mandirigmang matapang.

salamat nga adunay lugar para sa akong mga paminsar.
salamat nga aduna pay mga tao nga nagpaminaw kanako.
daghang salamat sa kariyot nga kalingawan sa inyong mga istorya
ug daghan kaayong salamat sa usa ka tuig ug daghan pang mga tuig nga panag-uban.

gosh madrama na to. kelangan ng selebrasyon, kaya pinatawag ko pa ang performer galing thailand. go gurl... do your thing....

kung wa kayo naintindihan, ako rin hahaha. tawa na lang kayo...


fairygodflower says: salamat mga sisters, mothers, titas and mga lolas... ang ganda nating lahat.

bitchywitch says: naway magtagal pa kami sa mundong itey. fyi mga lola, kung wa nag exist ang blog nato, wa rin kami nag exist ever...

Laughter is an instant vacation.
-Milton Berle

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Friday, May 2, 2008

mga main event ng buhay at lipunan

masama sya magalit

ang pangyayaring ito ay nangyari noong ika-15 ng abril alas dos ng madaling araw.

galing ang lola nyo sa overtime at naglalakad na sa may waiting shed ng ayala cebu para maghintay ng taxi. while on the way at kumikembot, may umakbay na lalaki sabay tutok ng kanyang... kutsilyo. may isa pang kasama sya na hinipu-an ako. parang tunog rape. sana nga rape na lang yun. hold up ang trip ng mga kampon ng demonyong yun. may dialogue pa ang mga gago, "relax ka lang, direstso ug lakaw, masama akong magalit". ang pangit siguro nya. obvious tuloy na di bisaya ang ang mga ugok. leche nila. basta yun na at ayoko nang idetalye masyado. traumatic. tinangay ang cellphone at konting pera. konti lang, di naman kasi ma-anda ang lola nyo. nagka temporary insomnia(meron bang ganun?) ako after that. umaga na nang nakatulog.

pero dahlin, di yan ang main event. syempre spread the news ang bakla after. "buti hindi ka pinatay". "may pera ka pa ba?". "mag-ingat ka na ha". yan ang mga sympathetic na statements galing sa mga sympathetic na mga tao sa paligid. salamat talaga. pero ang di ko inasahan ay may magbigay nga statement na,"baka umiiwas ka lang sa obligasyon at ayaw mo na magbigay". hurt akez. hurt na hurt kasi galing ang statement na yan sa mother ko. ouchness...

nagpagod na nga sa OT ginagawan pa ng kwento...*sigh*


baby out

another buzz that has been running around the internet and street corners was the misbehavior of the medical staff of vicente sotto memorial medical center.

i need not rewrite whatever happened in that video. the supposed professional staff who were handling the patient were inhumane and ugly.

eh kasi bakla

another punch was recently done to the patient and the lgbt community and it was done by the church. they(the church) blamed the patient that resulted in him being placed in a very humiliating position instead of calling for medical practitioners to treat their patients with respect and justice for the patient.

i cannot help but notice that the church is tolerating and even promoting homophobia. i also cannot help but compare when someone spilled out the details of the zte scandal, they rained him with praises, prayers and masses but now when someone got publicly taunted and humiliated by the people whom he trusted his life with, the church did not only turned its back but also blamed the one who was abused. i am not saying that the zte scandal was irrelevant but we cannot just give a blind eye when someone gets stoned by people and the church, who happens to be the protectors of the weak, would also pick up a stone and play along. maybe their parents forgot to tell them that when you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all.

para tuloy syang nahold-up tapos sya pa ang sinisi ng kanyang nanay (ay bitter pa rin ang lola nyo...chos).

the names

as of the moment, investigations have produced several names of those who were in the OR in the time of operation. they were head surgeon Dr. Phillips Leo Arias; assistant surgeons Dr. Angelo Linawagan and Dr. Max Joseph Montecillo; nursing attendant Rosemarie Villareal; and circulating nurse Carmina Sapio. These were the staff who should have only been there conducting the operation, which means that investigators are expecting more names to come up as the probing continues.

although it may be not clear in the video that these key people participated in making fun of the victim, it is clear that they failed to follow protocol and preserve the dignity of the patient. the named personnel are still serving vsmmc but are transferred to wards and given limited access to hospital facilities. vsmmc is prepared to file administrative case and only that since they are not willing to let the named staff go stating the shortage of personnel as reason. the patient and his lawyer, however have told the media that they may also be filing criminal charges to responsible staff and could include the hospital if the hospital administrators refuse to cooperate.

these young medical practitioners may be able to help out more people through their craft but they crossed the line and crossed it way too far. someone has to pay. well we hope that justice be served and may the punishment fit the crime.

fairygodflower says: we love being a catholic and i believe in one God who is not prejudice and hateful...

bitchywitch says: ... and we wish the victim justice and proper recovery from the incident.

If homosexuality is a disease, let's all call in queer to work: "Hello. Can't work today, still queer"
-Robin Tyler

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